Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Oprah says Farewell to Network TV today!

After a 25 year run, Oprah Says Farewell today to Network TV.

I watched Oprah’s final show today. I for one will miss
Oprah and the Oprah Show which closed an impressive
25 year run on Network TV. Oprah is a person I trusted
yet I have never met her. Oprah sincerely wanted to
present to her viewers information that was honest, factual,
trustworthy and reliable. Oprah is a giving person yet she
also realized that each of us must trust in ourselves and
then reach out to help another.

I was not a regular die hard fan, yet when I did watch,
I felt I could trust the information Oprah was presenting.
Oprah touched my life directly because I trusted a web host
that she recommended. That is why I now have my personal
website www.janpolk.com Thank you Oprah!

In her farewell speech, Oprah stated she felt that each of us
wants to be validated. That we all want to know “they will
see you” and “they will hear you” and that “they will validate
you.” Oprah's words. Oprah wanted to fill that void in all
of her fans.

Luckily, one of the benefits of getting older is that you soon
realize that there is more than one way to tackle a task, a
project, or a job. It doesn’t have to be Mom’s way or no way.
All that counts is the "bottom line" and that you maintained
your honor, your self respect, and you harmed no one in the
process.

I also liked that Oprah gave credit to God for her success
yet we know that none of the success came to Oprah while
she sat around waiting for the government to come help her
out. She worked long hard hours to arrive at her station in
life. No one gave her anything she did not earn. Oprah
also did not accomplish anything by herself. She depended
heavily on people who held the same values she did and
who were honorable, dependable, trustworthy citizens that
treated themselves and others with respect. A business cannot
exist for long with dishonest, uncivilized, disrespectful
employees. A business will not maintain employees of good
character for long if the employer does not treat the
employees fairly and with respect.

Oprah wants all of us to stay in touch with her via email.
Her email address is Oprah@Oprah.com She said she
would be the one who would answer.

We are saying farewell to Oprah on network TV but we
are not saying Goodbye as we can still see Oprah on
her own TV network -- OWN – the Oprah Winfrey Network.
My prayers for Oprah are “Continued success, happiness and
good health to you! God Bless Oprah.”

I see Oprah’s formula as trust, respect and good manners.
We are all hungry for that whether we want to call it that
or not. Respect and Good Manners are our common bonds.
We all want to be treated with respect.

No matter how advanced our society becomes, Technology
does not trump our obligation to treat each other with honor,
respect and common decency. Good manners start at home.
I say “Good Manners are Powerful!” Don’t leave home
without them.

We invite you to read our book “A Year of Good Manners”
by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk. $27.95
It is a quick read and is the gift that keeps on giving.
You will enjoy Margery’s humorous style in presenting
very important honorable, reliable, trustworthy basic life
skills training. Good manners make you feel relaxed and
confident. You will develop common sense, a backbone
and good self esteem just by reading this information and
applying it to your life.

Purchase on line at www.ayearofgoodmanners.com

Saturday, May 21, 2011

End of the World on May 21, 2011?

Rumor has it some are predicting the end of the world is today May 21, 2011.

I say just in case the whole world does not end, you can still end your life of uncertainty, misery, meanness, unkindness, unhappiness, weakness, etc. just by giving yourself permission to hold yourself to a higher standard. You have given yourself permission to live the life you are currently living. You have the power to change it. Use your God given gift of the two helping hands at the end of your own arms.

Change your life today. Develop a backbone, common sense, and confidence just
by reading our book “A Year of Good Manners” by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk, $27.95.
It is a quick read.....90 pages.......and Margery gives you a reason to use each of the 365 common every day etiquette tips. You will enjoy this book. Jan’s images are reminders to treat yourself and others with respect and expect others to do so in return.

Just one of the many tips in our book is: “Maintain composure when displeased.” When you are yelling, you announce to the whole world “I am out of control.”. The one who maintains composure is the one who is in control. Think how much calmer your life will be just by using this one tip.

Think about it. In the job market, if all things were equal, the person with the best manners will win out. Employers want to hire people they can trust to be honorable, dependable, reliable, respectful people who know how to show respect to themselves and to their customers. Employers want to hire people who have initiative and common sense and know how to get a job done. How you dress, walk, talk,and act are all social skills or the lack of social skills. Only you determine who you are. You can still be yourself yet hold yourself to a higher standard. Just because you are an honorable, civilized, law abiding citizen, does not mean you become a door mat and cannot protect yourself or have fun. We learn many other skills in addition to social skills; however, social skills are the first of life’s tools one must learn in order to navigate life on planet Earth. Social skills should be learned first; not acquired after one accumulates wealth.

When you base your self esteem on your social skills and not on the amount of
money you have or do not have, you will find life is quite nice. You are in control of your behavior.

Billionaire Warren Buffet says “The more you learn, the more you earn.”
Milwaukee Etiquette Consultant/Coach Margery Sinclair says “Good Manners are Good Business”
Artist/Publisher Jan Polk says “Good Manners Are Powerful.”

Read more tips here: http://www.ayearofgoodmanners.com

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Happy Mothers Day - May 8

Being a Mother is one of the most important jobs in the world!

“Teaching manners to children is the kindest thing you can do for them, and it is a long-term project. Teach by example, gently correct, encourage, quietly remind, praise when you can, and keep on doing it. Start when they are toddlers and you will have lovely teenagers.” says Margery Sinclair

To view other tips in our book, please visit http://www.ayearofgoodmanners.com/ and scroll to the bottom of the page.

Monday, April 25, 2011

15 professional artists Plein Air Painting in Gadsden, AL

If you are in the Gadsden, AL area you will want to stop by the Gadsden Museum of Art. They are sponsoring the 3rd annual 2011 Southeastern Plein Air Invitational
which brings 15 professional artists to town from 8 different states.

We paint all day at 5 different locations. Today, Monday, we were at the beautiful
Gadsden Country Club. Rolling hills and scenic water views in the valley of the Appalachian foothills. The public is invited to come out and watch us paint betwee 9 a.m. and 4 p.m.. We complete two paintings each day. At the end of each day the paintings are on display at the Museum.

Dr. Evelyn Brannon is writing about the event every day on the Gadsden Museum
Blog. She includes in depth reviews of each artist and pictures.

Scroll to the bottom of their website for links to their blog.
www.gadsdenmuseum.com

Our grand finale will feature an auction on Friday night at the Museum
from 6 - 8 p.m. Paintings purchased at this auction my go home with the buyer.
The remaining paintings will be on display at the GMA during the Month of May, 2011.
All paintings will be for sale; however, the paintings must remain on display for
the entire show.

This is an annual fundraiser for the Gadsden Museum of Art. You will marvel at
the quality of the works on display.

Happy Easter

Hope everyone had a Happy Easter.
I didn't get a chance to post yesterday.

Friday, April 15, 2011

Happy L.A.C. Day - April 15 - Law Abiding Citizen Day

"Blue Iris from the GAFC" (An image to remind you to be respectful
to your self and others.)

Thank you for being an honorable, civilized, law abiding citizen.


Today we celebrate our American Heritage and how much we are alike.
Civilized citizens come in all sizes, colors, ages, health, wealth,
education levels, religious and political parties. The world is
a safer place to live in because each of us willingly chooses to
hold our self to a higher standard and respect the rights of others.
The only reason we need laws is because of those who choose not to
be an honorable, civilized, law abiding citizen.

"Good manners are the great equalizer. They apply to everyone,
are free and available to all. They are the opposite of being
elitist, arbitrary and artificial. When society refuses to obey
the practical rules of etiquette that govern behavior, rudeness
and thoughtlessness will prevail. Every problem of the world
could be, or could have been, solved on the level of etiquette
before descending to lawsuits or wars." says Margery Sinclair.

UNITED WE STAND - DIVIDED WE FALL - IN GOD WE TRUST

Monday, April 4, 2011

Celebrate our American Heritage on L.A.C. Day - April 15 - Law Abiding Citizen Day

Make plans to celebrate L. A. C. Day -- April 15 - Law Abiding Citizens Day

L.A.C. day celebrates our American heritage and how much we are all
alike. Honorable, Hard Working, Civilized, Law Abiding Citizens are
the backbone of the United States of America. We come in all sizes, colors,
ages, health, wealth, education levels, religious and political affiliations.

Traits of an honorable LAC:

We behave decently to others, show consideration when there is conflict,
and maintain composure when displeased.

An honorable person will not lie, cheat, or steal even if the opportunity
presents itself.

We, by choice, are respectful to self and others which is why we can feel
safe in our own homes.

We abide by the laws of the land which reinforce our rights to life, liberty,
and freedom for all.

We elect our government officials from among ourselves. We are there before
the government arrives. We will be there if the government shuts down.

Being an Honorable, Hard Working, Civilized, Law Abiding Citizen is a way
to give something back to your your country, your community, and your family.

United We Stand – Divided We Fall

Thank you for being an honorable, civilized, law abiding citizen.
Without you our country could not exist.

Additional details at www.lacday.com