Uncontrollable Anger?

Are you always yelling and screaming at family members?
The reason is because you feel they do not respect you.
Keep in mind, yelling does not beget the respect you want and need.

The solution is to give yourself permission to not
yell. You are giving yourself permission to yell;
therefore, you can just as easily give yourself permission
to not yell and you will then feel more in control. You can
do this. It is surprisingly easier than you may think.
Disregard what others are doing, and concentrate on your own
behavior and not yelling.

By not yelling at them, family members will then begin to feel you
are treating them with respect and will begin to show you
the same respect. It is called civilized behavior. Even small
children recognize when they are not being treated with respect.
The behavior they learn, they learn from their parents.

It takes practice to not yell. You can spend thousands of dollars
on therapy to find out why you yell. I can tell you it is because
you feel you are not getting the respect you need. It is our common
bond, we all want to be treated with respect.

For a simple investment of $27.95, you can buy our book "A Year of Good Manners"
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Happy New Year 2011!!!

The easiest New Year's resolution to keep is to give yourself permission to
hold yourself to a higher standard.  It is easy when you know how and
why.   Start with NO YELLING ....especially at children,  spouses, family,
friends and strangers. Try it...you will like it.....your family will love it.

Yelling is a sign to everyone you are out of control and they should
not pay attention to you....they win.  It is not pleasant for anyone.

Do yourself a favor and read our book
"A Year of Good Manners" by Margery Sinclair and Jan Polk  $27.95

Good manners make you feel relaxed and confident.  If you feel like
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Treat yourself to a Happy New Year 2011!